Screening with real world information is required for all new clients. I do not accept references as a sole screening method, but I welcome them in addition to your employment verification. Feel free to include your PD handle on my booking form or when reaching out. 

Non-negotiable screening methods:

1. Your real phone number, no burner numbers. I will not text without your permission. 

2. Your LinkedIn, business website, work badge, paystub(lol) etc. to verify your employment 

3. A selfie holding your ID

4. A regular selfie

Bonus: Provider references or verified PD reviews.

I will provide 1-2 references for my clients if requested by another provider. Must be within 6-12 months of us meeting, and you must ask me beforehand (for confidentiality). 

Screening is strictly for my safety, your information is always kept confidential and deleted. Your safety and privacy are as important to me as my reputation. Discretion is the name of the game. Thank you for understanding the importance of screening :) 

25% deposit required for all Bay Area appointments

50% deposit required for any fly me to you, drive me to you, or sponsored tours

Deposit to be paid via Venmo, Cashapp, BTC/ETH, or gift card only.

Don’t want a paper trail? You may purchase a physical Amazon giftcard and send me a photo of it.

CASH CASH CASH for the remainder of the donation, presented immediately upon arrival.

DONATION:

OUTCALL: If I’m coming to your hotel, please place the donation in the bathroom near the sink.

INCALL: If I’m hosting, please either hand me the donation or place it down on the counter.

IN PUBLIC: If we are meeting in public, please put the donation in an envelope or gift bag.

I occasionally accept cryptocurrency. Must be paid in full prior to our date to account for transfer delays. 

If cancelled 48 hours before our date: 25% is owed (your deposit is forfeited)

If cancelled 24 hours before our date: 50% is owed

Same-day cancellations or no-call no-shows: 100% is owed

In the rare event that I need to cancel, your deposit will be refunded. 

Reasonable requests to reschedule will be accommodated as long as our schedules allow. 

Available daily between the hours of 9am to 11pm. 

I will wake up early or stay up late for you, if we plan in advance.

Pre-booking is highly recommended/ preferred, and the only surefire way for us to meet. Same-day appointments are doable, but never guaranteed. I request a 2-4 hour minimum notice so that I can screen you, get ready, and transport to you. I’m occasionally available last-minute, but it’s rare. You can try. Rushed and last-minute requests are subject to an additional $100-$200 fee at my discretion. Planning in advance is hot, and gives us both something to look forward to…

Excellent hygiene is required and non-negotiable. I appreciate the same effort that I put into our date to be reciprocated. I am always freshly showered and manicured, so I expect the same in return.

I reserve the right to cancel our date (without refund) if your hygiene isn’t to par or could be a danger to my health/safety.

Recommendations:

• scrub body with a soapy washcloth

• moisturize with lotion

• tongue scrape, floss, brush

• deodorant and cologne

• clip and manicure fingernails

• manscape(trim) your forrest

• hibiclens your armpits (for BO)

• clean clothes, nicely dressed

• go to the doctors regularly

• always wear your SPF!

*Let me know in advance if you’d prefer I be scent-free/ no perfume.

I love duos and groups!

My main duo partner/ bestie is Lozenge (her website).

I have more friends :) Contact me for information. 

Duos are my rate plus the other provider’s rate. If the rates differ, it is standard to match the higher rate X2.

I’m happy to see clients that are new to the industry and/or virgins. However, it’s imperative that you do your own research when hiring a provider. Check out Reddit or Google to find answers to any questions you may have. Read the provider’s ad or website entirely. Here is a link to the Good Client Guide.

For clients that are virgins or have minimal experience, please let me know beforehand (either in session or after you have screened). I aim to provide a high-quality service, and being informed helps me to do so. 

Lastly, make a good first impression when reaching out! First impressions are everything. 

• Text

• Email

• Signal

• WhatsApp

• Booking form

My phone number is the same on WhatsApp and Signal (510-290-1810).

Filling out my booking form is the quickest and easiest way to schedule a date.

Incall: Lindsey hosts.

My incall is in Oakland. I also have a shared spot in San Francisco. Kindly add $100 to the envelope for all SF appointments as a travel/host fee.

My place in Oakland is located in a cute, walkable neighborhood with bars and restaurants nearby. The SF penthouse is centrally located with easy parking and beautiful views. Let's get dinner/drinks and then go back to mine?

I do regular, monthly tours to the South Bay, and can host in a hotel anywhere in the Bay Area. Anything is possible with screening, deposit, and advanced notice.

Outcall: Client hosts.

I do outcalls to nice hotels only. I will consider visiting a private residence if we have already met.

Upscale date ideas:

• Michelin tasting menu

• Hotel suite staycation

• Weekend getaway

• Afternoon tea

• Rooftop cocktails

• Symphony/ Broadway show

• Vineyard/ wine tasting

• Lunch and shopping

• Helicopter ride

Fun date ideas:

• Farmers market/ cooking together

• Picnic/ people watching at a park

• Catching the sunset at the beach

• Cannabis lounge and dinner

• Live music at a jazz club

• Chi Chis at a tiki bar

• Natural history museum

• Couples massage/ spa day

• Private hot tubs/ pool day

• Seeing a movie in theaters

• A comedy or burlesque show

• Edibles and an aquarium

• Admiring art at an art gallery

• Roadtrip up or down the Coast

• Boutique hotels (Kimpton/ Ace)

• Arcade games and pool

• Somewhere with a view

Chill date ideas:

• Doordash and chill (2hr) Ordering dinner in plus private time

• Netflix and chill (2-3hr) Watching a movie plus private time

• Meet for a drink(1.5-2hr) near my incall plus private time

• Boardgames and puzzles(2-3hr) plus private time

I dress for the occasion. I wear minimal, natural makeup.

I’m usually in business casual or athleisure. Typically, I wear a nice dress with matching lingerie underneath.

I accommodate outfit requests if I have what you are requesting. “Little black dress” or “stockings” is fine, just let me know in advance.

If I don’t have the outfit, you can always send me shopping before our date.

A few of my favorite things for inspo. I love when clients bring me gifts and treats :)

Flowers: Roses, peonies, hydrangeas, bougainvillea, a top shelf eighth 

Cuisine: Mexican, Italian, Thai, Japanese, Mediterranean, hotpot, fish, Chicken Tenders <3 I’m a foodie and not picky, but I don’t eat red meat. Just poultry and seafood :) Will order salmon at a steakhouse hehe.

Treats: Charcuterie boards, chocolate covered strawberries/ nuts, Arsicault croissants, chocolate chip cookies, milk chocolates, fruit drenched in chamoy and tajin/ fresh fruit in general

Libations: Moscow mule, espresso martini, champagne, wine, hard kombucha

Non-alcoholic: Boba, Diet Coke, Thai tea, dirty chai or iced vanilla oat milk latte 

Lingerie: SavagexFenty, Honey Birdette, Lounge 

Music: Dad rock, afrobeats, reggae, psychedelic, girl music, soul/funk, house, hip-hop/r&b, reggaeton. I usually play low-fi during sessions.

I love receiving gifts, but I am weary of wishlists. Here are a few ways for you to spoil me:

• CASH<3 Extra cash in-person or a random Venmo is so sweet and appreciated :)

• Giftcards: Target, Amazon, Uber, Ulta/Sephora, Nordstrom/Rack, Saks, Lululemon, Marshalls, World Market

• Buy me flowers and weed

• Pay for my massage/ spa treatment ($100+)

• Pay for my coffee, breakfast, lunch, dinner

• Pay for my nails ($100+)

• Pay for my rent

• Pay for my shopping

• Pay for my lingerie

• Pay for my vacation

• Pay for my photoshoot

• Buy me property :)

• Buy me a car :)

Cashapp, Venmo, BTC/ETH

Human rights, social justice, environmental sustainability, and anti-racism are the foundation of my value system. These are my sacrosanct beliefs, it’s how I was raised. Humans are made up of 99% of the same stuff, the 1% is what makes you special and unique.

This is a pro-Black, pro-brown, pro-indigenous, pro-LGBTQ+, pro-immigrant, pro-women, pro-science, pro-earth, pro-peace, small-owned business. I want my clients to feel safe with me. Please refrain from any racism, homophobia, transphobia, or bigotry during our time together. We don’t need to be aligned on every single thing to have fun together, but I don’t tolerate hateful, low-vibrational energy. I want both of us to have a positive, high-vibrational experience. Let’s keep it respectful and playful.

With that being said, I do not discuss anything political with clients during a session, unless you bring it up. Our time together is a relaxing escape. Let’s leave our worries at the door, and enjoy the present moment. Additionally, I never expect to have 100% in common with anyone ever. I’m a deep-thinker and I understand systems, nuance, and grey-area. Nothing is black and white. The one thing we can all agree on is that we will never agree on everything. Non-judgment is a Buddhist principle I aspire to live by. I’m literally an escort, who am I to judge? I’m much more interested in bringing people together than tearing people down. Besides, I truly believe we have more in common than not (the 99% thing).

Always and forever, FDT.